Monday, February 13, 2012

My ex sent me flowers?

I am up at college and today I got flowers at my apartment. They were a nice suprise because I was kind of having a crummy day when I got this pretty vase of flowers. Until I found out who they were from, my ex-boyfriend. We have been broken up for about 4 months, and it was mutual because I was moving away to go to school. I have not talked to him in a long time and the card says I am thinking of you, love. Am I reading too much into this? I am not wanting to get back into a relationship right now, and there was no occasion for sending me the flowers. I just don't want to hurt him because he is a great guy. I would appreciate any suggestions.
My ex sent me flowers?
I think that you two can still be friends..I am with my ex and just take it at that...be friends and do not read any more into it...guard you heart dear!
Reply:You are very welcome and thank you! Report It
Reply:maybe he's thinking twice about what he lost......confront him A.S.A.P.
Reply:Explain yourself to him. That's the best way to go.
Reply:I would simply thank him for the flowers and then move the topic to friendlier waters. If he asks you to get back together give him an honest answer. It was his choice to send you the flowers, he knew where you were in the relationship. No guilt!!! Nothings changed.
Reply:There are powerful feelings on both ends here, He sends you flowers for no special reason other than to say he was thinking of you. He is a great guy. You guys broke up due to geography, but it seems that you never had any closure to your love affair. I imagine because it didn't feel right nor did you want to hurt him. I would like to think that he sent you flowers just because, and where there was no ulterior motive. You know him or if you are not sure why he sent them, you had better find out.



Write him a letter thanking him for the flowers and tell him it was very sweet of him to do (it was). Then, ask him in the letter the $64,000 question: "What were you thinking about me when you sent the flowers?"



He may still be burning a flame for you which is not entirely fair and while you have moved on, the question you have to ask yourself, is how far (not geographically) have you moved on.
Reply:no harm he was just thinking about all the fun you guys had and sent flowers
Reply:Yeah thats when they usually come back. Just remember there was a reason why you two broke up.
Reply:You realy need not to go back but thank him if you can.
Reply:Send him a THANK YOU note,tell him school is good and you don't have time to be serious at this time.you really appreciate the flowers and talk to you later.
Reply:Remember this,

flowers say i'm sorry,

chocolates say I love you.
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