Does anyone really think that sending lunch to your work place, or flowers...can make up for being a complete?

clod headed jerk? Just because other people see that "nice" part, doesn't make up for all of the bad.....years and years of bad......



Nobody really thinks that do they?
Does anyone really think that sending lunch to your work place, or flowers...can make up for being a complete?
once a rat always a rat 1 time i could see but if this has been happening for years then there is a problem
Reply:If I were working with you, I'd think that's the sweetest gesture and be jealous. If we were close though and working together, I'd be shaking my head because flowers do not take the place of making someone unhappy for years.
Reply:Its just a nice gesture to show that you are in their thoughts always.



It does not mean anything else other than you are special and thay just want to make the day better for you.
Reply:Each situation is different make sure you read the signs clearly and take it for what its worth. Change has to start some where, weather it be reconciling the problems or moving on.
Reply:It depends. It can't make up for being a "clod headed jerk" but it can make up for an episode of being a "clod headed jerk".



We all make mistakes.
Reply:I like to send a restraining order with the flowers.
Reply:Does not make up, but makes the people who accept such gestures harder to be mean to that person....

~SP
Reply:bitter much? seriously though, does it matter what your coworkers think? just eat the free food rip up the free flowers or give them away and leave the sorry bum
Reply:whose the clod-headed jerk? you want me to kick his butt for you??



and no, i don't!!
Reply:Whoever is using that tactic on you thinks so but no, I believe you.