If i send flowers to my husband at work will his officemates think...?

.....he's gay???
If i send flowers to my husband at work will his officemates think...?
Not necessarily. If his officemates know that he's got a sweet, loving wife then they will think nothing of it except probably be envious of his luck in life. So go ahead and send the flowers.



HOWEVER, if he's in one of those offices where people hardly know one another, then it's probably best to play it safe and not send the flowers. He might be the object of teasing and ridicule (spoken or otherwise) and could ruin Valentine's Day for you both.
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Reply:don't do that. He'll get ridiculed. Just send him a txt saying that your thinking about him. I'm sure thats the msg your trying to convey. I'm sure he will read it and smile. I mean you may have good intentions but an office is a small work area and people do talk about anything really to escape their boredom. Why not tease the guy who got flowers from his wife.
Reply:of course that's embarrassing.



on the part of the man, it's really embarrassing to receive flowers from his wife because it must be him who sends them right?



and its not good for the wife to send flowers. what's the reason?



if you send something, then couldn't it be a cup of coffee? or sweets? or cake? why flowers???
Reply:Well, his officemates will surely envy him for you are such a sweet thoughtful wife!

Go ahead, send him! You have all the rights and valid reasons to send him, especially this month of February ;)

Have a nice day !
Reply:it's probably a coin-toss on that one, he may get flak for being viewed as effeminate, on the other hand, some people may see it for what it is, his wife sending some love his way. My advice, if you don't want to ask him directly, is say that someone (Male) you know got flowers at work, and see how he reacts...
Reply:MMM probably they'll make fun of him...In my case I would hate that gift (men don't like flowers even if we "pretend" they like the gift to avoid hurting someone's feelings).



Don't waste your money on something he's going to hate; send him a basket of something he can eat or drink but not flowers.
Reply:It's very thoughtful and sweet of you to think of sending flowers to your husband while he is at work; however it doesn't look very positive on the part of the employer or his co-workers. This could be interpreted/perceived as being too showy and "oa" and could even disrupt office work. This kind of things should be kept private. If I am a guy,I would be embarrassed to receive flowers..It should be me, sending flowers, not my wife or gf..It's like, I'm not thoughtful and my /wifegf is now sending me message on how to be a thoughtful husband. IMHO.
Reply:My wife did this for me, and although the thought was very nice, I was very embarrassed. People didn't think I was gay, but it was embarrassing because it's not a normal thing like sending them to a woman. I even worked in an office full of just women at the time and still I was embarrassed. You may be better off sending him a gift basket of things he likes, that way you show him you love him and he enjoys it as much as you would enjoy flowers.
Reply:I sent a guy flowers once and to be honest he loved it! He was on a "high" for weeks. To make this even better, the guy got terminally ill and died 6 months later. Send the flowers, deliver them yourself.
Reply:they would all think,,,,,,,,,"awww, such a sweet wife he has!!! The lucky dawg!!" ;-)
Reply:his women officemates will think that was real nice!

his men officemates will either shrug or make green jokes.
Reply:they should... kidding!! that's very sweet.
Reply:I wouldn't...I sent flowers to my husband's office last year, and he still gets teased for it. It was a very manly arrangement with a football theme and everything, but it was the worst present I have ever given him...
Reply:Well in the U.S....everyone would probably just smile and think it was nice....but I would still want to be sure it wasn't embarrassing for him...then he wouldn't thank you!



In your country, you need to know before you do it....whether it would be a good thing to do....
Reply:Ok, he's you're husband and i'm sure the office mates know about you. Is it for his birthday or valentines day or just because...? I am a florist and we send guys flowers more than you'd know. Send him something manly... tell the florist, they know what to do. You can also choose sending something along with it like a balloon, or something that might be really funny. If he has a fav sports team or hobby include that in the arrangement. Or send him a candy or fruit of snacks basket ... lots of choices. Flowers aren't always only for women.